Friday, August 28, 2009

Look Matters

Have you ever asked yourself, why do we lose weight, why do we go to parlour, why we want perfect hair cut, why we are looking for a nice dress? Who doesn't want to look good? It boots up our confidence level & gives us feel good factor. Am I right? Yes I am.


Looks matter in each & every field of life. Either in official life or in Personal life. When you dressed well & clean shaved and going to attend a meeting, you can feel yourself as center of attraction. People listen you very well, when your complete look is impressive. Same with girls. When they feel that they are looking better than other girls they gain some boost. Look always works.

When you are young & in the initial stages of love, look matters the most. I am not saying it always matters 100 %, but when you are looking for your partner, looks definitely matters. Though for a healthy & long relationship other things are important, but for love and first attraction look matter. Internal beauty comes after look . First a person gets attracted towards some one, who looks beautiful or handsome as he/she desires.

I am not denying, after some time when you both are in healthy & good relationship, look hardly matters. I strongly believe that behavior is more important & looks will fade away with time.  To sustain a strong relationship mutual understanding, maturity, respect, care, love & personality, is most important qualities. 

People who say looks doesn't matter,  for them it's true, they are having good views & thoughts, keep it up. But for rest of the  people it matters. If look doesn't matter, why not all guys attracted towards a bad looking girl? Why many girls do not go for wealthy partner rather they prefer good looking partner.

As I said earlier look doesn't matter 100% but yes it matters 50%.  So according to Nidhi's views try to make yourself attractive & improve your other qualities also. There is no harm to improve yourself  with good look, dressing sense & good habits. Trust me look always matters.

There is a story in Hindu Mythology “ Once upon a time there was a Swayambar of Goddess Lakshami ( Goddess of wealth). The Swayambar was attended by God Shiva & God Vishanu. God Shiva came there with snakes on his neck, in one cloth called “Langot“ & with long & dirty hair called “ Jata”. He didn't look good enough. In other hand God “ Vishanu” was well dressed in yellow dress called “Pitambardhari” with so many gold &  gems jewelry &  fragrance called ”Itra”, so Goddess Lakshami attracted towards Vishnu & selected him as her husband. Though both God Shiva & God Vishnu having same skills & power but looks worked here very well....

So got Nidhi's Point? Moral of the story is "Look Matters".

7 comments:

Ashutosh said...

Its true that looks do matter, but only up to a limit. Its the overall personality and how you carry and present yourself that matters more.

Amit K Sagar said...

v.costly wordings. keep it up. i lean many things infact frm here!

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डॉ .अनुराग said...

yes look always matter weather we admit or not atleast the first impression .....

प्रसन्न वदन चतुर्वेदी said...

good post....

amit singh said...

you may fall in love with a personality but at the end you will have to live with the character.

वरुण कुमार सखाजी said...

This is quite matter of outer beauty of the person but acctually we can not ignore the real beauty of men/women.I dont criticize this artical but realy it was started from 100% and closed with this acceptance that inner beauty is also unignorable...Out side look out may have an quick attraction but to maintain further real beauty required essantially inner beauty...Viz niether can be ignored outer nor inner beauty...Outer is an entry card and sustaining card is inner beauty..Ok Buh Bi..Bi..All the best