Look Matters

Have you ever asked yourself, why do we lose weight, why do we go to parlour, why we want perfect hair cut, why we are looking for a nice dress? Who doesn't want to look good? It boots up our confidence level & gives us feel good factor. Am I right? Yes I am.


Looks matter in each & every field of life. Either in official life or in Personal life. When you dressed well & clean shaved and going to attend a meeting, you can feel yourself as center of attraction. People listen you very well, when your complete look is impressive. Same with girls. When they feel that they are looking better than other girls they gain some boost. Look always works.

When you are young & in the initial stages of love, look matters the most. I am not saying it always matters 100 %, but when you are looking for your partner, looks definitely matters. Though for a healthy & long relationship other things are important, but for love and first attraction look matter. Internal beauty comes after look . First a person gets attracted towards some one, who looks beautiful or handsome as he/she desires.

I am not denying, after some time when you both are in healthy & good relationship, look hardly matters. I strongly believe that behavior is more important & looks will fade away with time.  To sustain a strong relationship mutual understanding, maturity, respect, care, love & personality, is most important qualities. 

People who say looks doesn't matter,  for them it's true, they are having good views & thoughts, keep it up. But for rest of the  people it matters. If look doesn't matter, why not all guys attracted towards a bad looking girl? Why many girls do not go for wealthy partner rather they prefer good looking partner.

As I said earlier look doesn't matter 100% but yes it matters 50%.  So according to Nidhi's views try to make yourself attractive & improve your other qualities also. There is no harm to improve yourself  with good look, dressing sense & good habits. Trust me look always matters.

There is a story in Hindu Mythology “ Once upon a time there was a Swayambar of Goddess Lakshami ( Goddess of wealth). The Swayambar was attended by God Shiva & God Vishanu. God Shiva came there with snakes on his neck, in one cloth called “Langot“ & with long & dirty hair called “ Jata”. He didn't look good enough. In other hand God “ Vishanu” was well dressed in yellow dress called “Pitambardhari” with so many gold &  gems jewelry &  fragrance called ”Itra”, so Goddess Lakshami attracted towards Vishnu & selected him as her husband. Though both God Shiva & God Vishnu having same skills & power but looks worked here very well....

So got Nidhi's Point? Moral of the story is "Look Matters".

Being Single

When ever this word comes in my mind, I ask so many question to myself.

1)What is the meaning of Being Single?
2)You have a boyfriend or girlfriend, even then you call yourself Single?
3)How long can anybody be single?

I have got different answer for these questions.

1)What is the meaning of being single?

If you live alone, “Alone” means you don't have any friend (neither male nor female),if you can not share your feelings with anyone (neither with older nor with younger) it means you are single. If you have a friend & if you share your all feelings, how could any one be single?

2)You have a boyfriend or girlfriend, even then you call yourself Single?

If you have a boyfriend or girlfriend, with him/her you can share all your feelings, with him/her you make relationship mental & physical. Then how can you say that you are single. Just because you have not married. It's not fair.

3)How long can anybody be single?

If you think that “Being Single” means “Not Getting Married”, So how long can anyone be single? Many people say that Being Single is the best part of life. Trust me they just say like that. But they themselfs want to become Double as early as possible. Have become Double through either getting boyfriend or girlfriend or by getting Married. Is that true? Yes it is. Though the way will be different to become double.

Singles always ready to Mingle. They always look for a partner who loves, cares & gives respect. For Boys partner should take care of all his needs & for girls partner should furnish safe & secure future to her.

That's the biggest truth of life. Tough you live your life as single, these thought always comes in your mind. Whether You accept it or not. After certain age when you think, you have achieved all those things you wished for, that time you realize you should have your partner. When you see your friends or your relatives who have happy married life that time you wish for partner. Am I right? Yes I am.

This is life, no body can deny the basic need of human being, either it is mental, social or physical. You have to find someone with whom you can spend your whole life. Neither friends nor relatives can stay life long with you. They have their own world, family, liabilities & duties. No one can stop their life for you. So you have to become Double. You can live & enjoy single life as long as you want, after certain time you should be Double.

For Single star Mingel & take your time to be Double. Best Wishes & Blessings From Nidhi.

To Know The Road Ahead, Ask Those Coming...

How come? I read it some where & started thinking on it. How this is possible? How can we trust any body? Might be the person expressing wrong views? Some times it happens, there are people who don't want to give right information to others. These people don't want that other person do the exactly same thing or even perform in better way. So might be that person who walked on the road gives you false information about road, task & experience. Some people do it intentionally & some might not. You can't trust any one blindly & make your decisions according to others views.

The person who is coming back shares his/her experience. If the person don't like something about that road, place, work, task etc, the person try to convince you that, what he/she thinks is right in his/her views. If the person likes that road, place, work & task. He/she try to convince you that, what he/she feels is right. But according to others experience how one could decided what is right or wrong for them.

Every one's way of thinking, interest, knowledge, behavior towards that situations & their skills might be differ from other person. Some times what other people like, is totally different from them. Even in the same given conditions, circumstances & environment, two person could react differently. Because every one's capacity, thinking ability & capability to fight with circumstances might differ.

Every one can explain their own experience, but you can't assume that, whatever the person is telling, also correct for you. You just guess the conditions & situations from other person's experience and try to deal in best way according to given or same conditions. Try to listen every experience from other people, do your home work, means try to understand what would you do? Make a plan, put all effort & do it. With hard work, you will definitely get success. Try for the best but prepare for the worst.

You should search & know the road ahead by yourself. That is Nidhi's way to find the Road. There is a saying in India which is perfectly fits " Listen everyone, Do what your heart says." This is also like Learning By Doing.....

SRK Detained At USA Airport

Though I am a huge fan of SRK but, According to my experience it is not a big deal in USA & European Countries. They do these acts just because of security. There is no relationship between name. It is not related to being a khan. We & so many others have faced this situation couple of times. Just because we are normal person it haven't become a big issue. Even we have remove our Malgalsutra's some times. If you go to any important place in US like Statue Of Liberty or any Sky Scrapers like Sears Tower, Empire State you have to pass through the security.

They never see that which race you belongs to. If they have any doubt, on any person they just grab them & if the person is not guilty, they will leave him with apology. I think this tight security is good for a common man & it is just for our security only. Though our community is minor community here so we think it happens only with us. There is no relation with being a Khan.

But no doubt he is a world famous personality. When for him it took 2hr time to questioning just think of others & simple people, who faced this kind of situations. How much they struggle. But I must say that American authorities should adopt some other way so that world famous personalities are not embarrassed like this....