Look Matters

Have you ever asked yourself, why do we lose weight, why do we go to parlour, why we want perfect hair cut, why we are looking for a nice dress? Who doesn't want to look good? It boots up our confidence level & gives us feel good factor. Am I right? Yes I am.


Looks matter in each & every field of life. Either in official life or in Personal life. When you dressed well & clean shaved and going to attend a meeting, you can feel yourself as center of attraction. People listen you very well, when your complete look is impressive. Same with girls. When they feel that they are looking better than other girls they gain some boost. Look always works.

When you are young & in the initial stages of love, look matters the most. I am not saying it always matters 100 %, but when you are looking for your partner, looks definitely matters. Though for a healthy & long relationship other things are important, but for love and first attraction look matter. Internal beauty comes after look . First a person gets attracted towards some one, who looks beautiful or handsome as he/she desires.

I am not denying, after some time when you both are in healthy & good relationship, look hardly matters. I strongly believe that behavior is more important & looks will fade away with time.  To sustain a strong relationship mutual understanding, maturity, respect, care, love & personality, is most important qualities. 

People who say looks doesn't matter,  for them it's true, they are having good views & thoughts, keep it up. But for rest of the  people it matters. If look doesn't matter, why not all guys attracted towards a bad looking girl? Why many girls do not go for wealthy partner rather they prefer good looking partner.

As I said earlier look doesn't matter 100% but yes it matters 50%.  So according to Nidhi's views try to make yourself attractive & improve your other qualities also. There is no harm to improve yourself  with good look, dressing sense & good habits. Trust me look always matters.

There is a story in Hindu Mythology “ Once upon a time there was a Swayambar of Goddess Lakshami ( Goddess of wealth). The Swayambar was attended by God Shiva & God Vishanu. God Shiva came there with snakes on his neck, in one cloth called “Langot“ & with long & dirty hair called “ Jata”. He didn't look good enough. In other hand God “ Vishanu” was well dressed in yellow dress called “Pitambardhari” with so many gold &  gems jewelry &  fragrance called ”Itra”, so Goddess Lakshami attracted towards Vishnu & selected him as her husband. Though both God Shiva & God Vishnu having same skills & power but looks worked here very well....

So got Nidhi's Point? Moral of the story is "Look Matters".

SRK Detained At USA Airport

Though I am a huge fan of SRK but, According to my experience it is not a big deal in USA & European Countries. They do these acts just because of security. There is no relationship between name. It is not related to being a khan. We & so many others have faced this situation couple of times. Just because we are normal person it haven't become a big issue. Even we have remove our Malgalsutra's some times. If you go to any important place in US like Statue Of Liberty or any Sky Scrapers like Sears Tower, Empire State you have to pass through the security.

They never see that which race you belongs to. If they have any doubt, on any person they just grab them & if the person is not guilty, they will leave him with apology. I think this tight security is good for a common man & it is just for our security only. Though our community is minor community here so we think it happens only with us. There is no relation with being a Khan.

But no doubt he is a world famous personality. When for him it took 2hr time to questioning just think of others & simple people, who faced this kind of situations. How much they struggle. But I must say that American authorities should adopt some other way so that world famous personalities are not embarrassed like this....