What is love? It is a feeling, feeling of soul for some one "Extra-Special". For me it is "Extra-Special". "Extra-Special" because we do love so many people in so many other aspects & ways, but when this "Extra-Special" feeling comes for one "Extra-Special" person it is "Love".
We can feel this Love anywhere, anytime, anyplace & in any age. Though that person is not near to you but you can feel him/her very near to you. When you can feel that you are so happy, everything looks beautiful, you can do anything, you can face & fight with any problem. That is "Love". It can happen with any body & in any circumstances. Trust me every time the feeling is beautiful & it's intensity is same as we felt when we were young. There is no need to be close to that person. You can stay away from that person & feel that romantic feeling. You can feel that passion, craziness & madness. That's the way of Love.
Some times distance will increase Love & going far away or being apart, will make you believe & realize that you are in love with some one "Extra-Special". Without him/her you can't even imagine yourself. You can feel, if that person goes away from your life, you can't survive, without him/ her you will die. Your heart beats fast, you can feel emptiness inside, you can't think any other thing beside him/her. Though you never touched him/her but you can feel that touch. You badly want to share your feelings towards him/her. You can feel that you have become Mad, Crazy & obsessed towards him/her.
I think some times "People never know how special someone is until they leave you. May be sometimes it's important to leave some one, so they can realize how special someone really is". Whenever you feel like this, trust me you are in "Love" with some one "Extra-Special".
When you feel you can do anything, anything I mean, anything for him/her. When you feel that, you never get hurt by his/her actions. When you pray for his/her goodwill without missing any moment. When you just want to give your love to him/her without thinking about any returns. If the person whom you love & he/she just knows about your feelings & the person accepts it. When you love without condition...that's it... nothing else... That time you are in "Love" with some one "Extra-Special" this Love is really "Ever Lasting Love","Beyond the limit of Love" & This Is "Nidhi's-Love" .
Thursday, July 16, 2009
Sunday, July 12, 2009
Do men expect too much from women?
Of course yes ! Men expect too much from a woman. He wants an open mind friend in his wife or girlfriend when he interects with his friends. A brilliant colleague when she is in office. She should be similar to his mother when subject of cooking and care comes. He expects a lot from a woman. Besides this she should take care of their children & in-laws without even a single mistake. when question raise that which is important her career or family, she must choose family.
Even when a man wants to marry a girl that time he thinks that girl should be modern, intelligent, career oriented, good looking, attractive, friendly, but after marriage his views changed. How? Though she should be modern but she should understand my families value, culture and she should behaves like a obedient daughter in-law. The girl with whom he wants to spend her night out in bar, pub or disco, weekends in shopping, cinema, long drive etc, etc after marriage he hates every thing. No disco, no night outs, no cinema, no shopping, he loves only sleeping and passing comments and teasing her on every activity.Or he wants to go out with his friends only.
As a daughter she has to obey her father's rules/instructions, as a sister she has to fallow her brother's guidance, as a girlfriend she has to fulfill her boy friend's demands, as a wife she has to fallow her husband's rules, as a daughter in law she has to obey her in-laws rules, as a mother she has to fulfill her children's need, with all these she should do work. She will lose her identity in this race. Trust me it is difficult. Men wants to play her number of roles simultaneously. A guy realize all these kind of problems only when her mom or her daughter phases same problems in their lives & fight with these kind of situations but he never understand his wife's or girlfriend's problems.
Man should understand that to days women's are trying to do all these kind of work simultaneously & succeeds too. But women's have some limitation, limitations because of her physical strength. She is weaker in physical & emotional matter, it's true. We should understand her difficulties & respect her.
Even when a man wants to marry a girl that time he thinks that girl should be modern, intelligent, career oriented, good looking, attractive, friendly, but after marriage his views changed. How? Though she should be modern but she should understand my families value, culture and she should behaves like a obedient daughter in-law. The girl with whom he wants to spend her night out in bar, pub or disco, weekends in shopping, cinema, long drive etc, etc after marriage he hates every thing. No disco, no night outs, no cinema, no shopping, he loves only sleeping and passing comments and teasing her on every activity.Or he wants to go out with his friends only.
As a daughter she has to obey her father's rules/instructions, as a sister she has to fallow her brother's guidance, as a girlfriend she has to fulfill her boy friend's demands, as a wife she has to fallow her husband's rules, as a daughter in law she has to obey her in-laws rules, as a mother she has to fulfill her children's need, with all these she should do work. She will lose her identity in this race. Trust me it is difficult. Men wants to play her number of roles simultaneously. A guy realize all these kind of problems only when her mom or her daughter phases same problems in their lives & fight with these kind of situations but he never understand his wife's or girlfriend's problems.
Man should understand that to days women's are trying to do all these kind of work simultaneously & succeeds too. But women's have some limitation, limitations because of her physical strength. She is weaker in physical & emotional matter, it's true. We should understand her difficulties & respect her.
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
Long run relationship…
I found this topic on TOI :-
While attraction is enough to bring two people close to each other, what happens when they discover each other's personality traits - does it lead to a dent in the relationship or do these minor differences help the couple to complete each other? Do couples who are completely opposite to each other make a better match in the long run? Can a relationship survive personality differences? Or is it wise to select a partner who is similar to you?
Here is my views :-
I don't think so that attraction is enough to bring two people close to each other. Though they attracted towards each other for some time but after knowing each other attitude, ideas towards life, behavior towards situations, thoughts towards any thing or any point, they can easily judge that they are totally different from each other but they don't want to accept it, if they are in love. But after some time they realize that it was only affection of opposite sex, nothing else. In this type of situations a healthy and happy relationship is not possible for long term. Because after some time they are unable to understand that why this person (he/she) is behaving like this and why he/she is not thinking in the same manner as he/she does. In this situation they gets frustrated and this kind of relationship gives fight, tension, frustration and guilt only.
In this situation it is advisable that happily apart from each other, pray good future for each other, when ever he/she wants your favour always try best for him/her and keep contact as a good and faithful friend.
If the differences are minor then only couple can complete each other by overtaking or being responsible for other person's attitude and they can try to understand each other. Because it is true that no one is prefect , no one has all the good qualities , no one is ideal . Every body has some positive things and some negative things . You are the person who can see the positive side of that person and try to overcome negative side. It is the matter of vision. But yes some time it is true that, few person has 80% or 90% good qualities that time he/she should be really Ideal, Ideal for any body and in any situation, but after all he/she is a human being, so some bad qualities must be inside him/her . So leave that bad part always.
Couples who are completely opposite to each other they never make a better match in the long run. Relationship can't survive personality differences. That is why... it is wise to select a partner who is similar to you in mental level and maturity level too. His/her perception towards life and lifestyle should be same. Only that time a relationship will be happy and healthy for long run.
While attraction is enough to bring two people close to each other, what happens when they discover each other's personality traits - does it lead to a dent in the relationship or do these minor differences help the couple to complete each other? Do couples who are completely opposite to each other make a better match in the long run? Can a relationship survive personality differences? Or is it wise to select a partner who is similar to you?
Here is my views :-
I don't think so that attraction is enough to bring two people close to each other. Though they attracted towards each other for some time but after knowing each other attitude, ideas towards life, behavior towards situations, thoughts towards any thing or any point, they can easily judge that they are totally different from each other but they don't want to accept it, if they are in love. But after some time they realize that it was only affection of opposite sex, nothing else. In this type of situations a healthy and happy relationship is not possible for long term. Because after some time they are unable to understand that why this person (he/she) is behaving like this and why he/she is not thinking in the same manner as he/she does. In this situation they gets frustrated and this kind of relationship gives fight, tension, frustration and guilt only.
In this situation it is advisable that happily apart from each other, pray good future for each other, when ever he/she wants your favour always try best for him/her and keep contact as a good and faithful friend.
If the differences are minor then only couple can complete each other by overtaking or being responsible for other person's attitude and they can try to understand each other. Because it is true that no one is prefect , no one has all the good qualities , no one is ideal . Every body has some positive things and some negative things . You are the person who can see the positive side of that person and try to overcome negative side. It is the matter of vision. But yes some time it is true that, few person has 80% or 90% good qualities that time he/she should be really Ideal, Ideal for any body and in any situation, but after all he/she is a human being, so some bad qualities must be inside him/her . So leave that bad part always.
Couples who are completely opposite to each other they never make a better match in the long run. Relationship can't survive personality differences. That is why... it is wise to select a partner who is similar to you in mental level and maturity level too. His/her perception towards life and lifestyle should be same. Only that time a relationship will be happy and healthy for long run.
Saturday, July 4, 2009
Will the Gay Sex Ruling Help Preventing HIV/AIDS?...In India
I found this topic on TOI :-
Will the Gay Sex Ruling Help Preventing HIV/AIDS?
How come it will be possible? When our Law told previously that it is a crime. According to law it is unnatural. We know this kind of activities are treated during Third Degree Torture. And we all know the meaning of torture.
India is known for it's Culture and Tradition. So will this be our “Culture For Future”? No, never. Why people don't want to understand that even Society like America is not able to digest it. Here in USA we see everyday on news so many problems related to this. So many protest held against it, So many problems discussed everyday on television. Not only in India but other part of World also realized it is not good for human being.
And the main topic :- Will the Gay Sex Ruling Help Preventing HIV/AIDS?
I don't think that there is any relationship between HIV/ AIDS and Homosexuality. Prevention from HIV/AIDS is part of awareness. How much awareness regarding HIV/AIDS we spread in our society, we will be safe from this. This is not the way to prevent HIV/AIDS. For Prevention from HIV/AIDS we have to talk about it with our children, our friends, our colleges, our parents too. According to my knowledge talking on bold subject in our society is very difficult. No body wants to listen and talk about such kind of topics. Though we know that in modern/ technical/ scientific age every body reads & watch many things on TV & Net also. So I think it is better to start talking about these matter with your children in heathy & medical way, rather than not discussing and letting them collect wrong information from other sources and get confused.
Homosexuality will increase crimes and criminal mind in our society because it is not natural. By this we are going against human nature. This will lead our society to fall apart. In our nation we gave so many information about population control, but we can see the result. Nothing will change by just creating law.In our country there are so many problems, those are related to common man. Why don't we solve them first? Biggest issues like equality, women liberty, raps etc etc. When country like America is not able to digest it how can our society will digest it?
Our Law gives us so many rights, but it's complete knowledge & correct utilisation is necessary to successful implementation. According to my knowledge this law is not going to prevent HIV/AIDS. In our nation this is necessary to speak about HIV/AIDS. We need to talk about this.
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