Do men expect too much from women?

Of course yes ! Men expect too much from a woman. He wants an open mind friend in his wife or girlfriend when he interects with his friends. A brilliant colleague when she is in office. She should be similar to his mother when subject of cooking and care comes. He expects a lot from a woman. Besides this she should take care of their children & in-laws without even a single mistake. when question raise that which is important her career or family, she must choose family.

Even when a man wants to marry a girl that time he thinks that girl should be modern, intelligent, career oriented, good looking, attractive, friendly, but after marriage his views changed. How? Though she should be modern but she should understand my families value, culture and she should behaves like a obedient daughter in-law. The girl with whom he wants to spend her night out in bar, pub or disco, weekends in shopping, cinema, long drive etc, etc after marriage he hates every thing. No disco, no night outs, no cinema, no shopping, he loves only sleeping and passing comments and teasing her on every activity.Or he wants to go out with his friends only.

As a daughter she has to obey her father's rules/instructions, as a sister she has to fallow her brother's guidance, as a girlfriend she has to fulfill her boy friend's demands, as a wife she has to fallow her husband's rules, as a daughter in law she has to obey her in-laws rules, as a mother she has to fulfill her children's need, with all these she should do work. She will lose her identity in this race. Trust me it is difficult. Men wants to play her number of roles simultaneously. A guy realize all these kind of problems only when her mom or her daughter phases same problems in their lives & fight with these kind of situations but he never understand his wife's or girlfriend's problems.

Man should understand that to days women's are trying to do all these kind of work simultaneously & succeeds too. But women's have some limitation, limitations because of her physical strength. She is weaker in physical & emotional matter, it's true. We should understand her difficulties & respect her.